Tuesday, November 2, 2010

QQ# 02 - MOVING ON

on which heartbreak is harder to move on?
a relationship that only lasted for a while?
or a relationship that took more than a year?


i heard lots of stories already and even from my past experience that relationships who lasted only a few weeks or months are harder to move on. is this because we have more why's and what if's?

how about you? how long did it take for you to heal?


to a new friend who is still in the process of healing after a failed relationship a couple of years ago, i hope that you will be healed soon. :)

13 comments:

  1. matagal o madali pareho lang ang sakit..maraming tanong!

    sa case ko..iniisp ko lang lahat ng masamang ugali nya o negative na bagay sa relasyon..ayos na! masakit sa una...habang tumatagal pasakit na ng pasakit lalo,hihihihi

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  2. wow, danda naman neto. :) healing mode din ako eh. sana maging okay na din yung friend mo. :)

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  3. @glentot: break? single naman ako ah! haha!

    @pokwang: sabi nga nila, pinakamailis na paraan para makapag-move on eh isipin mo yung mga masamang nangyari sa inyo para wala ka ng kakapitan pa.

    @claudiopoi: thanks thanks! ikaw kaya yun! hahaha!

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  4. I promise to answer your question as soon as I get healed.

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  5. alam ko nuh. nagpapakasubtle lang ako. nilaglag mo pa din. haha :)

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  6. si yj ang dapat sumagot ng tanong na ito. kasi tanong mo ito. :))

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  7. Hmmm... depende... sa akin ang mahalaga hindi naman ang haba ng pagsasama kundi ang quality ng pagsasama...

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  8. CASE TO CASE BASIS NAMAN YAN!! PERSONAL OPINION KO LANG NAMAN TO MAY 7 YEARS AKO NOON, EGO KO LANG NAMAN ANG NANGINGIBABAW DUN DAHIL NAUNA SIYA NAGKARON NG IBA KAYSA SAKIN. MOVING ON MAHIRAP PERO TIME HEALS ALL WOUNDS NGA PERO 7 YEARS NGA YON BUT HINDI NAMAN GANON KALALIM YONG PINAGSAMAHAN NAMIN IN A WAY NA HINDI GANON NAALAGAAN ANG RELATIONSHIP NA YON OKAY LANG ANG BREAK UPS, OKAY LANG ANG BALIKAN, WE USED TO HAVE THAT WHEN IT ENDS, IT JUST ENDS. NO REGRETS. HINDI NGA TALAGA YON SA TAGAL NG PANAHON BUT ITS WHAT YOU AND THE PERSON INVOLVE SA ISANG RELATIONSHIP ON HOW YOU TWO TAKES CARE OF THE RELATIONSHIP, ON HOW YOU TWO TAKES CARE SA ISAT ISA... AT KUNG ANO ANG MGA PINAGDADAANAN NIYO...

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  9. feeling ko it has nothing to do with time, it's more of how it worked out. kaya rin siguro mas madalas yung di nakakamove on agad sa shorter relationshops kasi ang dami mo pang gusto sanang gawin. pero kung wala ka naman talagang plano sa buhay, kesho mahaba o maigsi ang relationships mo, walang impact.

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  10. Hmm. Last month I caught my ex with another guy. Nagbasag lang ako ng bote ng Coke and screamed at my roommate the usual PI and MF. Then after a while, okay na ko. Nakarecover na. "Next, please". Nyahahaha.

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  11. breakups happen for a reason. check the reason because it motivated the decision. i also believe in reunions -- that what an incident or another person prompted in the past for the breakup to happen does not stay long enough to keep two souls longing for each other again. this is because bonds also do not happen by accident. they happen also for a reason.

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tuff it out and leave a footprint :)