Sunday, May 2, 2010

RELATIONSHIPS AND APOLOGIES

This is an emo post. If you get suffocated with such things on emoness, better skip this and move on with other's posts.

Ang pagpasok sa isang relasyon ay hindi parang kanin na mainit na kung isinubo mo ay pwede mo lang iluwa. There are things needed to consider before getting committed like the personality of your partner, their background and your feeling is right as well.

Yet, when already involved in a relationship, madami din kailangang tandaan para maging matibay ang inyong pagsasama. I want to share three pointers here that think might help you in building a stronger relationship.

  1. Learn to say sorry and forgive. If you know that you hurt the feelings of your partner, say sorry immediately. Iwasang patagalin ang mga misunderstandings kasi the more na pinatagal mo ito ay mas lalo itong magiging complicated at baka mas mahirapan kayong solusyonan ang problema. On the other hand, learn how to forgive. If your partner asked for forgiveness, give in. You will know if he/she is sincere when they say sorry. Ibaba ang pride kasi walang nagagawa ang pride, mas lalo lang magkakaroon ng gap between the two of you kung mahirap kang magpatawad.


     

  2. Tell your partner about your true feelings. Being open on your feelings in any kind of relationship is vital. Kung galit or naiinis ka, sabihin mo and be transparent. Hindi manghuhula ang partner mo kaya mas ok sabihin ang totoong nararamdaman. Kung may kinikimkim kang inis sa kanya at hindi mo ito sinabi ay wala itong magagawa. Para lang itong anay na bubuwagin ang inyong relasyon. Keep communications also both open. Alam nating lahat na napakahalaga ang communication sa isa't isa.


     

  3. Tell them or show them how much you love them before it's too late. I was not a "showy" person before. Naiirita ako sa unang girlfriend ko noon kasi lagi nyang sinasabi kung gaano nya ako kamahal. Hindi ako sweet na tao kaya ayoko ng mga ganun. Until we found out that she has leukemia. That was the turning point for me, I realized nagkamali ako. I had only very little time to show and tell her how much I love her. Nagsisisi ako kung bakit hinayaan kong palampasin ang napakadaming pagkakataon na sabihin sa kanya. Kaya nung sumunod kong relasyon ay lagi ko ng sinasabi kung gaano ko sila kamahal.


     

I hope that someday she's going to read this post. I want her to know how much I love her and I'm willing to do everything to make our relationship go stronger. I know she's mad at me now that's why I am asking for forgiveness. I hope that she's still willing to fix the problem I made and I am begging her if we can sit and talk about this one.

I have plans on us already. I want to build a family with her, a home where we can stay forever. I want to be beside her until my last breathe.

If you're going to read this, please accept my apologies and let's start anew. I love you very much; you're the one who taught me how to love again after being broken. I don't want to lose you and I hope you still do.

18 comments:

  1. Print ko, tapos i abot ko sakanya gusto mo?

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  2. good points there esp number two' don't bottle it up inside. talk about it. it may end up being a serious problem. though im still on process of learning on how to make relationship last well i think everybody does when it comes to relationships. and i think friendship is the foundation on which long term relationship is built.

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  3. e\ganito din b yung mga posts mo sa isa mong blog sir andy? hehe..

    wala n ko masabi tama lahat ng lesson mo about relationship. sir andy cguro may oras pa naman.go go go puntahanan mo na.sabihin mo na apir

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  4. Mas epektib siguro kung sasabihin mo sa kanya ng harapan... sdaanin mo kaya sa pamilya niya para malaman niya kung gaano ka kaseryoso sa kanya at sa paghingi ng tawad...

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  5. this is what i call COURAGE.... and no, not only in the love department but... alam mo na...... :P

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  6. hoy andy... dami mong di nakukwento na...

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  7. yan ang marka ng tunay na lalake.

    marunong magparaya sa babae.

    hope everything turns out right man.

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  8. Siguro kung sinaksak kita nung Sabado ang tutulo sa sugat mo ay puro malapot lapot na cheeze. Hehe. It's good to be inlove, but if it eats into your happy-time and leaves you depressed, you better overhaul things. Put your happiness first.

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  9. aprub sa number 2....God bless sa future ^_^

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  10. All the things uv said were true and correct...

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  11. @Jepoy: wag na, ok na kami tsaka baka sulutin mo pa sya nu. ahihihi! :D

    @Ahmer: remember this my friend, some relationships doesn't last because you haven't found yet the one who makes you whole. naks! gumaganun????

    @kikilabotz: isa kong blog? wala ah? hahaha! :)

    @xprosiac: oks na kami pero salamat sa paalala. :)

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  12. @YJ: department of KALIBUGAN? dyan dyan ikaw na ang pinakamalinis! haha!

    @gillboard: wala akong ikukuwento nu, di ba dapat ikaw? :)

    @humanbullshit: salamat kuri. naks naman! :)

    @glentot: istupa, lalabas ang malapot na malapot na honey noh! sobrang tamis ko kaya! bwahahaha!

    @Sendo: ay abkit hindi lahat? lols!

    @Jag: thanks thanks! :)

    @Inhinyero: thanks thanks pud! :)

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  13. Yeah Right!
    Patience to wait for the right moment'
    It will show up in the most unexpected way.

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  14. @ahmer: gow! hayan wait wait mo lang at be patient, wag mainip

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  15. :) bakit may comment moderation na? hehe

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  16. @ahmer: dahil sa isang post ko nun. hayan tinanggal ko na. hehehe

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  17. Hmmm may kulang ata sa puntos? : D

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