in the next few days...

... i will be moving to a new home.

image source: http://www.asian-central.com/stuffasianpeoplelike/2008/07/23/83-not-moving-out/

MY EX, MY CONFIDANT...

Would it be so nice when your ex-girlfriend becomes your confidant?

We decided to separate ways 2 years ago when our future as a couple was blurring. Of course there were bitterness and lies and hurting and tears yet we didn't wallow much into that. We avoided running wallops into each other and embraced the reality of our new status.

We didn't have any communication after the breakup. I did not even have any news about her since I was not able to talk with her siblings.
Years came by. On one Saturday evening, I saw her in our favorite restaurant. We frequent that place since we both love their past. She's with another guy and I'm with my date.

We smiled and wave into each other, we even shared the table. Time heals all wounds as what they say.

Since then, we kept our communication open. I would text her and she would reply. She would call me and I answer. We also learned that we both went into turmoil of rebound relationships and left broken. 
There's no malice on what we are doing now. In fact, we became good friends, confidant to be exact.

Sometimes she would ask me questions on why we get separated then we will both laugh on the reasons. One time she would call me crying because she and her hubby had a fight. She would text me in the morning to ask on how I will celebrate this and that.

I ask her out, too, if she would like to have lunch or dinner. I would also inform her that I had another "flavor of the month" and she dumped me.

We are much enjoying what we have now. We've been more open to things that we cannot discuss when we were together.

I guess that's what life is – people come over to our lives, some will go, then some will come again with a different purpose.

LOCATION: CUSP

i always feel like i'm on a race aiming for the number 1 spot.

primera. segunda. quinta. faster than the speed of sound.

i shift gears in just a snap, i don't mind going in between.

i enjoyed the swift and feel like dancing in trance,

until i realized desolation kicked my ass.

i need to slow down.

i'll stay for now in the cusp.

LEZGOW!

I love traveling and one of the things I do when I go to foreign lands is what they can offer eve when I go on budget trips. Local delicacy is a must and their EXTREME adventures should be tried.

In the last few years, I like the feeling of popping my adrenaline rush to the sky. Here are the 2 videos which I took before taking the ride.

HK Ocean Park's The Abyss

Singapore's GMAX Extreme Bungee

Pero dahil sa medyo parang pambata pa ang mga nasa taas, I am planning to do this probably in the next couple of years at kapag nakaipon na. Hehehe.

Macau Tower Bungee Jump

Kuala Lumpur Base Jump

Lezgow! :)

MEET MY BABY

When I first saw her on the TV, I was one of worst critics. Sinabi ko pang mabilis lang sya malaos kasi puro sya ganda sa panlabas at wala sa panloob.

Pero tignan mo nga naman ang pagkakataon, I fell in love with her and loving her more and more everyday touching her. J

P.S.: High-maintenance GF pala sya, kelangang laging may damit para hindi sya magkapeklat at hongmohol ng accessories nya. Kaya ngayon, hubo't-hubad muna sya! Haha!


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Gimme A Break

Simula ata nung pumasok ako nung January eh natatameme na lang ako sa tapat ng computer ko. Kung magkakaroon lang ng competition ng staring game sa monitor eh nanalo na ako. Hindi ko kasi alam kung bakit anong nangyari sa ginawa kong development sa project ko, bigla na lang nagkawalaan at nagka-luko-luko ang programming nya. Hayan tuloy, napagalitan tuloy ako ng business.

Anyway, dahil Friday naman, babawi na lang ako sa pagtulog this weekend at kung meron pang party party ay mas masaya. Gusto ko tuloy umeskapo dito sa office mag TUGSH TUGSH TUGSH na lang sa beat ng Yeah 3X ni Chris Brown.

Happy weekend sa inyong lahat!

MENDIOLA BOY

Pauwi na ako galing sa bahay ng isang kaibigan para paunlakan ang kanyang paanyayang hapunan. Marahil sa madami na din akong iniisip at sa masamang pakiramdam ko, sumakay na lang ako ng jeep na byaheng Quiapo. Hindi ko na napansin kung saang ruta ito dadaan.

Nasa bandang LRT Pureza na kami nung nagtawag ng pasahero ang driver at sinisigaw ang Mendiola. Patay ako, mali ang nasakyan ko. Hindi ito dadaan sa Legarda kaya madodoble ang pamasahe ko o kung sipagin ako ay maglalakad ako ng malayo-layo.

Pero bigla na lang may maganda akong naisip. Marahil dahil sa hindi naman ako nagmamadaling umuwi ay pwede akong maglakad-lakad sa kalyeng pinamugaran ko din ng apat na taon para magsunog ng kilay.

Pagdating namin sa korner ng Mendiola at Aguila, bumaba na ako. Pinagmasdan ko ang mga pagbabago na dinulot ng panahon. Dumami na din ang mga mangangalakal sa bandang iyon. Resto, fast foods, banko at kung anu-ano pa.

Sa tinagal-tagal ko din sa lugar na iyon, naglipana ang mga memories nung ako ay isa pang Mendiola boy. Ito yung mga unang pagkakataong talagang tumatak sa aking isipan at humubog sa aking kamalayan.

Naranasan ko ng tumakbo na suot lang ang adult diaper para sa initiation rites. Isa itong seremonya para i-welcome kaming mga first year sa San Beda. Nakasulat pa sa likod ko nun ang aking cellphone number, baka sakaling may mag-text na taga-CEU o Holy Spirit o LaCo. Tsamba! Hehe.

Kung merong kantunan ang mga Intramuros-based universities, meron din kaming tinatawag na Hepa Lane sa may Mendiola Creek. Dito kami tumatambay pag bandang dapit-hapon para kumain ng kwek-kwek, beda burger, isaw at kung anu-anong tusok-tusok habang naamoy ang baho ng creek. Kebs na lang kahit naka-long sleeves and tie kami habang kumakain, pag paubos na ang baon, dun ang takbuhan naming madalas.

Meron ding sikat na kainan na tinatawag naming Haunted House. Sa halagang P15 eh solve na ang gutom – sabaw, kanin at tatlong pirasong pork adobo. Box office hit din dito ang kanilang calamares, mura kasi sya pero punong puno ng harina. Ginagawa na lang naming ay ulamin ang harina.

Sa Mendiola ko din unang nakakipag-lips to lips kay yosi. Nangyari ito pagkatapos ng exam ko sa law. Dahil sa sobrang stressful ang exam, pinasubok sa akin ng classmate ko para daw marelax ako. Ngayon, napapayosi na lang ako occasionally, ayoko naman kasing maging chain smoker ako.

Sa isang madilim na sulok ko din unang natikman ang sex.

Madami pa sana akong ikukwento kaso napahaba na ng husto. Alam ko naman kasing mag-i-skip read nanaman si Glentot at si Ahmer at si Jepoy. Ampf!